Thursday 31 March 2011

General Updates

Opening a girl's home requires a lot of time, planning, and funding! When we first began planning this project, we had the goal of starting with 12 of the most desperate girls. This number dropped as girls were moved around to different parts of the country, and jumped back up when more abused girls requested to be part of the Hope Home plans. All of this has has continually reaffirmed the desperate need for these girls to have a safe and stable home to live in, to be able to develop to their full potential.

All of the planning on the Uganda side of things is being done by Hellen. For those of you who are unfamiliar, Hellen is the director of Christian Upliftment Primary School where the girls go to school. You can imagine how busy it is to be a director of a school, while also planning to open Hope Home! While it would be ideal to have more staff on the ground, we do not have the funds to see this through at the moment. We also cannot turn our backs to the girls who are being abused, every single day.

Therefore, together as a team of international donors, volunteers, Hellen, and the girls themselves we are planning to make this project a success. We believe that everyone could help out. That could be by making a donation, sharing this blog, or donating any of the items needed.

On May 15, Nikki and I will be in Uganda to help set up Hope Home. Here are some of the things we plan on doing:


1)Get to know the girls: This sounds easy, but with a busy schedule and with girls who have constantly had their thoughts and opinions devalued, this may be tricky. We want to spend time getting to know more about each girl and how we can work alongside them to help them. We will also help the girls create their own contract for terms of living in Hope Home, and how to they can handle any problem that they may experience in or outside of the home.

2)Furnish the home: Thanks to everyone who donated, we will be able to purchase many of the needed items the girls need, as well as the collective items for the home. We are still in need of many items, so please consider making a donation!

3)Updates: By each having a camera, and taking part in many Hope Home activities from purchasing items, to getting to know the girls, we plan on doing some very detailed updates for our donors. It might sound easy to do updates, but for a busy woman like Hellen it can be extremely difficult! Not only is she busy, but the internet is extremely slow in Uganda. It can take one hour to send only a few pictures!


4)Income generating projects: We hope to explore some income generating projects that can be started at Hope Home. These would help create stability and some income security instead of relying solely on donations.


As of now we have $1,177 left to raise to be able to open Hope Home! Please help us raise these needed funds before May 14, so we can finally be able to open Hope Home!


Collective Needs



Laundry Soap=$15.55
We need 2 boxes of laundry soap, each box of soap will last for 4-6 months.

Curtains=$46.45
Curtains will help transform the house into a home!

Water Drums=$21.45
Water drums will provide clean water storage for all of Hope Home's water needs. This includes for bathing, cooking, cleaning, drinking, and laundry. We need 3 water drums to be able to separate the clean water for bathing and drinking, from the water for laundry and dishes.

Most Urgent Needs
Food=$16.57/week or $66.30
One of our most urgent ongoing needs will be to provide the girls with two nutritious meals everyday.

If you would like to sponsor the ongoing monthly food costs at Hope Home, we would be extremely grateful! You can choose to provide a monthly donation of any amount, which will go directly towards purchasing food. We will be sure to send you updates and photos of the girls your donation is supporting.

Rent=$80/month or $960/year.
The current rent at Hope Home will be $80/month.

If you would like to sponsor the rent at Hope Home, this would help us create much needed security at the home. This entire project is being set up because of it's urgent need, and we are currently completely reliant on the donations of others to help these girls. Our biggest fear is that we will one day fall behind on rent, and other arrangements would have to be made for the girls.

Your monthly support for rent would not only help us provide a roof over the girl's heads to meet their physical needs, but will also help them recover from their traumas and continue their education, meeting their physiological needs. The girls are now in a position where they are forced to worry- where will their next meal come from, will they become educated, will their guardians abuse them today, or will they be sent "away". We want to eliminate this worry, and have the girls live in a place where they can truly feel safe in. A home where no one will hurt them, or evict them.

Please help us provide this, by making a donation for rent. It can be a one time donation or monthly, we are truly grateful for anything and everything.

Tuesday 15 February 2011

License and Registration, please!

With six of our girls going to secondary school, the need to open Hope Home has become even more urgent to ensure that the graduates are able to continue their education.

All six girls have been rescued, which means that all their needs have been met. We have also been able to cover 3 months worth of rent and food thanks to donations! While making our budget, another important need was overlooked. This is to obtain a license and registration for the home.

While it might not seem like such a pressing need and as important as food, items for the girls, or rent, it is probably the most important thing for the home as without it Hope Home has no legal right to operate. The cost of this is $350.

If you would like to help Hope Home obtain a license to operate, please consider making a donation! Thank you from the Hope Home girls!

Friday 4 February 2011

Priorities for Hope Home

We are so proud and delighted that six Hope Home girls have the opportunity to attend secondary school this year! A big thank you to everyone who made this possible by donating towards the ESCAPE Scholarship fund. Without your support, these girls would not be able to attend school.

Our main concern right now is that our girls will be able to attend school, hassle free. Because they are all girls who will be living at Hope Home, they will all be going to day school.

In Uganda, there are day schools and boarding schools. The majority of students go to boarding schools as just going for the day may be too far and transport too expensive. All of our girls will be going to day school and then returning to Hope Home in the evening. Our concern right now is that since Hope Home is not yet open, they will be forced to go back home after school.

Returning home after school poses a number of problems for the girls. We have already noticed some jealous feelings surfacing among guardians who would rather not see the girls go to secondary school. They see this as a lose of labour, as most of the girls cook, clean, take care of small children, fetch water, and do any other tasks the family tells them to do. Coming home after school would also not give them the opportunity to study peacefully, something important to their academic success.

Because of this, we will be opening Hope Home early and starting off with our six graduates. They are Darphine, Dinah, Ketty, Rebecca, Scovia and Betty. It is just as important that the other 8 girls can join as soon as possible. If you would like to see the doors of Hope Home open to all our girls as soon as possible, please consider making a donation. Our priority as of now is to be able to properly feed and home the girls. We are so grateful to everyone who has already donated and those that plan on giving!

Hope Home will need $66 each month to cover an entire month's worth of food. Consider skipping a restaurant meal once or twice this month, and instead feed our girls twice a day for 31 days with your donation!

Future Hope Home girl, Auma Susan, helping prepare lunch at CUS. Molly, Darphine, and Betty are also in this photo.


Thursday 20 January 2011

One girl too many

I am very sad to report, but we have lost one of our future Hope Home girls.

Nyapendi Betty was living with her step mother who did not see Betty as her own child. Her father was rarely home, as he had work in another district. He did care for Betty as best as he could, and was not abusive to her like his wife was. Being away so frequently and having little financial means to improve Betty's situation, this care came in the form of Betty knowing her father loved her. Within the last few weeks, her father became increasingly ill. He was made aware of the Hope Home plans and was delighted that Betty was included in the project plans.

When Hellen recently went to check up on Betty, she learned that her father had passed away. With his passing, her step mother went with Betty to a village in Northern Uganda. When the step mom returned to Kampala, she did not come back with Betty.

This situation plays out over and over again for many of the girls. This is why Hope Home is being created, for girls like Betty. Betty, like all of our girls, are on a list made up of girls who are "at-risk". Being on this list means that you are presently living in an abusive household, and are at risk of things getting a lot worse. Forced and sold into labour, prostitution, and marriage are what commonly happen.

We cannot let this happen to another one of our girls. Opening Hope Home all depends on donations. If the remaining funds needed came in tommorow, Hope Home would be able to open in the same week! 13 amazing girls would finally be able to live in peace.

Please consider making a donation or purchasing a needed item for the home on the online shop. A big thank you to everyone who has already rescued a girl or made a donation. You are making the future brighter for some very special girls!

Sunday 16 January 2011

Around the World Necklaces

We are excited to announce that there is now a fashionable way to help Hope Home!



Please check out www.aroundtheworldnecklaces.blogspot.com to purchase a beautiful necklace in support of Hope Home.

Monday 27 December 2010

Online Shop: Outfit

It's hard to believe that we are already 16 days into the new year! The preparations for Hope Home continue, and we are now $2,023 away from being able to open.

The online shop is now up and such an easy and efficient way to help provide a safer present, and brighter future to our girls. Many of the needed items have a number next to them, which represent how many more are needed.

One of the items we would like each of our girls to have, is their own outfit. They will choose their outfits from the market which can be anything from jeans and a cute t-shirt, a dress, or a skirt and blouse. Whatever they feel most comfortable and happy with.

The outfits the girls currently have belong to their host family. As a way of humiliating the girls and to 'discipline' them, there have been incidences where the guardian will strip the girl of her clothing, or an article of clothing(such as a t-shirt). This is a way to punish a girl, and remind her of her place in the home, as a servant with no belongings.

We want to counteract this act of cruelty by giving each girl her own new outfit, one that she will choose and keep no matter what the future holds for her.

To be able to provide an outfit for each girl, we need 7 more outfits. These outfits will go to:
Auma Christine, Auma Susan, Athieno Darphine, Awor Winifred, Bukirwa Zaituni, Kwagala Rita, and Nyapendi Betty.

Each outfit is only $5.55. If you would like to purchase an outfit for one of the girls, please visit our online shop. If you would like to purchase all 7 outfits please make a donation of $38.85.

Thank you for helping a girl feel special, and bringing Hope Home one step closer to opening!

Thursday 23 December 2010

Meet Susan!

Susan is one of the girls who will be living at Hope Home once it opens. The following is a post by Kate, who met Susan and 9 of the other Hope Home girls on her trip to Uganda in June 2009.
I met Susan on my trip to visit Christian Upliftment Primary School (CUS). After years of working with the school as a sponsorship and fundraising coordinator, it was amazing to finally see it in person.

Susan is the kind of girl who after just a few minutes with her, you would think you knew her forever! She has such a joy for life, and is always laughing and helping others. I saw this immediately when arriving to the school as she helped the younger children line up to wash their hands before lunch. Or in my own experience, I had been itching a mosquito bite so badly that it bled a little. When Susan saw this, she immediately ran to get water and started washing my leg and ordering someone else to get me a bandaid. She continually asked me if I was ok throughout the day.

One of the highlights of the trip, for myself and the children, was visiting the amusement park in Kampala called "Didi's World". Incomparable to the theme parks in North America, it had small car rides and an ancient looking monorail. But, it proved to be more than fine for the kids. They had a blast! Susan asked if she could try to take a photo with my camera of some of the kids on the rides. As I was about to show her how to use it, she was already aiming the camera at people and snapping photos. She proved to be quite the amateur photographer! I asked her if she has ever used a camera before, and she told me that she has not. However, she was observing me taking the photos and knew she could do it to! This is just one of many examples of her amazing attitude when it comes to learning, always hungry for more knowledge and ready for a challenge. When I told her that there are some people who take pictures for a living, she was interested in knowing more. I promised her that the next time I visit I would take her some photography books so she can learn more.

Unfortunately, Susan does not have a home life which will allow her to grow and thrive to the best that she can be. She is determined, kind, and very intelligent. In North America and Europe, qualities like these are often looked for when giving out school scholarships and student awards. I would like to one day see Susan in Primary 7 with a scholarship lined up for high school, college, and then university. I may be getting a bit fast tracked, but what I truly want is for Susan to be able to live in a safe home, where these are the kinds of things she think about. No child should be worrying about if they will be abused today, or sent away to be a house servant or married off. But these are the things Susan and the twelve other girls have to worry about, day after day. It continually amazes me how strong each one of them are, and how much they value their education.

Hope Home has two main goals . The first is to rescue at-risk girls, who are in what we call the "danger zone"- girls like Susan. The second is to empower the girls once they have been rescued to continue their education. This will lead to them to becoming healthy, independant, educated young woman. The future of Uganda at its best!
Susan cooking lunch and teaching a younger student how it's done!

These girls are all truly amazing. There are so many worthwhile projects out there, and it can be daunting to think of starting up a new one. $3,000 is a lot of money, but I think for what it can do, it is so little. We can rescue Susan and all the other girls if we all do what we can. Even purchasing one item for a girl or the home will bring us one step closer to being able to open Hope Home!

You can take a look at the cost analysis post for more details on what is needed and the cost. Take a look at Susan's page to see what see needs by going here.